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When Your Therapist Divorces You

When your therapist "divorces you" it is akin to chopping off a limb. Improper termination can trash years of good therapy. So how do you terminate a client?read more

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Why Buying a Bed Bugs You

If you’ve ever had insomnia, then a guy who refers to himself as “The Sleep Doctor” might be your first stop.read more

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Reality Death Watch

TV continues to tackle new lows. More than 10 million people tuned on to watch Nik Wallenda attempt his walk across Niagara Falls. Or did they? Were they hoping for success or the big fall? And this...

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How To Fake It Really Well

Are you a sports widow or widower? Is sex something that happens only when you "wear a nightgown made of Astroturf?" (T.Fields) And if you don't know what tinea cruris is, you better read this.read more

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My Best Solution for Treating Anger Management

I’m a believer in anger; not the smash-your-hand-through-a-wall type (although I’ve felt that physical rage). In my experience held-in anger eventually mutates into an explosion of rage that can no...

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When Daddy Loses His Job

Unemployment continues to rise. More and more of us are pink-slipped and panicked. It's not something one can hide. You need to have a frank discussion with your family. Explain to them the changes...

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When Mom is a Drug Addict

I recently had a family come to see me. They were greatly concerned, that Mom was “using"—addicted to opiates and other narcotics that have kept her back pain at bay for years. A couple of pills in the...

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Weight is Weighing on My Mind

When a 500 pound man is revered you know there's a lot more to him than what reads on the scale. While you are trying to shed those holiday pounds, Kelly Gneiting is trying to put them on, run his...

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On Turning 85

Eighty-five is the new 65—if you met my Mom, you would agree.read more

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The Real World of Rehab

Caution to those considering entering a rehabilitation facility for treatment of addiction. Know what you are getting into. Look into the staff, the doctors. Be sure they are properly credentialed and...

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School is Back and so is Anxiety and Bullying

If your child comes home in tears, hides more in his or her room, claims that they are sick when they are not, they may be suffering fom school anxiety - fear of the classes, fear of tests, fear of...

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Quit Giving Your Kids a "Hall Pass" Through Life

The last time I had a real conversation with my child is when I took away her cell phone and she could not text me. Is that how we really want to bring up or kids? We are trying to win their love by...

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Addicted to Law & Order

When I work at certain clinics, I am usually the only one in the room without a chemical addiction. But I do have my issues and I do understand addiction. Trading one addiction for another is very...

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Tears of Joy, Tears of Sorrow

Olympic skier Bode Miller exhibited tears of joy and tears of sorrow at the same time. Was he goaded into sharing a very private moment by a rabid reporter or was it fair game? Was he so emotionally...

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Saying Goodbye to the Family Home

After living 24 years in the same home what stays and why hits the Good Will box? First toys? Plastic trophies? Baby clothes? The original earthquake kit we never threw out with diapers still in it?...

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Monica and the Rest Who Deserve a Second Chance

16 years ago Monica Lewinsky committed a mutual indiscretion with the President of the Uniteed States. This month, Vanity Fair pays tribute to the "coming out" of Monica. Is she trying to derail Hilary...

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Your Clock Is Always Ticking

When faced with a potentially life-changing medical issue, it makes you take stock of everything. How will you deal with the issue at hand? But more importantly, what is it you need to clean up - I'm...

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The Other Side of Suicide

Weeks after his death, we continue to talk about and mourn the loss of Robin Williams. There is another side to suicide we should look at. Who are the real victims of this tragedy. Tabloids indicate...

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Quit Giving Your Kids a "Hall Pass" Through Life

The last time I had a real conversation with my child is when I took away her cell phone and she could not text me. Is that how we really want to bring up our kids? We are trying to win their love by...

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I Have Weight on My Mind and It's About 430 Pounds

I have weight on my mind and my new friend carries about 430 pounds of muscle, runs marathons, is training to swim the English Channel and has taken his weight situation and turned it into a Guinness...

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